This card can serve as an outline for a conversation between adults. It is not a contract or a reason to demand inspection of someone else’s device. In coercion or violence, protection comes before negotiating through a form.
What is personal privacy for us, and what affects the other person:
How we handle the other person’s messages, photographs and other information:
Our boundaries around romantic or sexual content, time and money:
What we will do if use starts worsening or bothering either of us:
The agreement need not establish a shared opinion on relationships with AI. But it should allow discussion of the impact without ridicule, threats or an automatic entitlement to the complete history.